About Me

Illinois
I'm a military wife of a little over a year! I'm going to school and plan to get my Bachelors in Early Childhood Education. I love reading, writing, cooking, shopping, and camping!

Wednesday, September 30, 2009

My Eyebrow Lady

I've known Lori for 5 or 6 years now. She does my eyebrows often and facials occasionally. She is kind of like a cheap therapist. We talk about everything and she listens to my problems and I listen to hers, and she has actually become a good friend.

Right after I became pregnant I went to see her. She told me that her husband and her were going on a week vacation and they were going to try and make a baby. I told her that I was pregnant at that exact moment.

It would have been so exciting if we could be pregnant together! I couldn't even tell you how awesome that would be. We could go shopping together, talk about changes going on with us, bitch about things. lol Those hormones would be raging!

A couple weeks after that I went to see her again, she asked me how the pregnancy was going and I told her that I had lost the baby.

The next time I went to see her, she told me she was pregnant. There was an older lady sitting next to her and she looked at me funny, because all I said was "Are you really?" I was trying not to cry as I said this. We got into her room and she asked if I had the D & C and I started to cry.
I was mad that she even told me she was pregnant, I understand why she did, but she should have understood the pain I was going through.

I felt bad afterwards. I told her I was sorry and that I was happy for her. I am really happy for her. She is 31 after all.

I don't know though, I couldn't see her having children for some reason. She is a great person, but I don't know if she is the "motherly" type. I guess I'll find out soon enough.

She really isn't very far a long. A month, maybe. I just hope that she doesn't have a miscarriage. If she did though, I would be there for her and she would have a shoulder to cry on.

Pretty much, I think she shouldnt have told anyone until at least 3 months along.

Maybe I'm being a hypocrite since I told everyone about the same time as her. If I could do it again though, I would wait until the 3 month mark. I will the next time.

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